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The One with all the Kimonos

What with all the Harajuku girls and all the other cool Japanese fashion trends something we really weren't… [more]

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Riding the Japanese bullet train

We ended up riding the Japanese bullet train (or Shinkansen) by accident. Typhoon Phanfone meant we had… [more]

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My top 5 things to do in Tokyo

We fell totally in love with Tokyo and it was a real wrench to leave it behind. Everything just works… [more]

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Summer reads

How do you choose your summer reads, the books you buy especially to take away with you? I'm flying from… [more]

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My totally gorgeous, probably impractical new pink coat

Yesterday I did something a bit rash. Something not very 'me'. I bought a gorgeous new pink coat. PINK.… [more]

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Chased by monkeys and blessed by a monk

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Visit to Angkor Wat and Angkor Thom

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Renee Zellweger and the myth of Just As You Are

For most of us who adore Bridget Jones - the books and the films - we fell in love with Mark Darcy at… [more]

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Samsung Galaxy K Zoom review and day at Thorpe Park

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The One with all the Kimonos

Bride and groom at Meiji shrineWhat with all the Harajuku girls and all the other cool Japanese fashion trends something we really weren’t expecting to see quite so much in Japan was people wearing kimonos, but it’s actually really common, and the juxtaposition of modern-day Japan with the traditional dress just adds to the allure of this fascinating country. They range from the kimonos worn for a special occasion (I love this photo of a bride and groom at the Meiji shrine)…

Ladies wearing kimonos eating ice-cream Asakusa

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…or visiting somewhere like Asakusa (I couldn’t resist taking a picture of these two ladies enjoying their ice-creams)…
Woman wearing kimono Otaru

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…to the more everyday kimonos, like this one.

couple in kimonos Asakusa

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You see couples wearing kimonos…

Man wearing kimono Tokyo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and we spotted this man wearing this rather gorgeous one in a taxi queue at Tokyo station.

So, when we arrived at Kushiro and discovered you could be dressed in beautiful silk kimonos for free OF COURSE Harriet and I jumped at the chance.

Japanese silk kimonos

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

First we had to choose our kimonos from the rack – they felt incredible, and such pretty designs…

Being dressed in a kimono

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and then we had to stand patiently while the ladies dressed us in layers of silk. It was all very precise.

hair up Japanese styleJapanese hair

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…they fixed our hair and put flowers in it…

obi sash

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

….and then they tied on the obi (sash, now you know where the name Obi-Wan comes from), which holds it all together, and made an elaborate bow at the back, so skillfully it was like origami. Amazing.

wearing a kimono

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and then we were invited to put on the geta (wooden shoes) and then came the really hard bit… try to walk in the whole ensemble. Of course you can only take little tiny steps, so it takes you a while to get anywhere. But we couldn’t resist posing in our kimonos with the paper parasols they lent us…

Harriet in her kimono

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and I really wish we’d bought the kimonos, because they were only about 5,000 yen (about £30), so really, a bargain, but I didn’t have enough cash with me. We were a bit sad when we had to take them off, although I can’t imagine having to wear them all the time. Walking in those shoes is a nightmare ;)

Renee Zellweger and the myth of Just As You Are

For most of us who adore Bridget Jones – the books and the films – we fell in love with Mark Darcy at the same time as Bridget herself. When he floors her with the words: “I like you very much. Just as you are.”

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I have no idea whether Renee Zellweger, who played Bridget on film, has had cosmetic surgery, and frankly, while I’m not a fan of the frozen-forehead look, it’s her face, she can do what she likes with it. We all know that Hollywood stars are under extraordinary pressure to retain their youthful glow if they want to keep working and not get cast as Someone’s Mother, if at all. For every Susan Sarandon or Cameron Diaz who are happy to let their laughter lines show there’s a Meg Ryan who has resorted to cosmetic surgery. And actually men aren’t immune, either. George Clooney may be happy with his grey hairs and cragginess (as are we) but there are plenty of actors who wear obvious syrups or have faces frozen scarily in time.

Renee Zellweger and I are more or less the same age *cough* and while I’m too afraid of needles and knives to have cosmetic surgery I do hate my crow’s feet, the result of a lot of cackling and sunbathing; so I use various eye creams in a bid (probably futile) to keep them at bay. I also watch what I eat and drink, I don’t smoke, I have my hair done, my teeth whitened and my eyebrows threaded. I would no more turn up to a work function without some slap on than I would naked. Am I vain? No, not really, but I don’t believe you *have* to look like ‘your age’ (whatever that means) if you don’t want to, either.

But unless your name is Carla Bruni or Kate Moss, it’s a harsh fact that once you start to lose that effortless glow you had in your youth, if you don’t want to find Ann Widdecombe staring at you in the bathroom mirror, you’re probably going to need to put a bit of effort in: whether that’s with a decent cut and colour or a fabulous moisturiser or great shade of lipstick. Suggesting otherwise is, like Bridget Jones’s Diary, pure fiction.

I’m happy to grow older disgracefully, but I don’t intend looking rough while I do it. So I’m just as I am, with a little help from my friends in expensive jars. My face may take a bit longer to uncrumple in the mornings now, but at least it still is my face.

Dame Judi Dench

What I do worry about, though, is the message that Hollywood’s obsession with youthful appearance sends out to young women: that women have a short shelf life, and once we’ve reached a certain age all we can do is preserve, while clinging on to what once was. No longer able to play the romantic leads; invisible.

How much more preferable to age like a fine wine, like Dame Judi Dench, and stay glamorous in the spotlight while embracing your laughter lines, proving that a life well lived is the best kind.

 

Riding the Japanese bullet train

Japanese Shinkansen Gran Class

We ended up riding the Japanese bullet train (or Shinkansen) by accident. Typhoon Phanfone meant we had to disembark Diamond Princess early and head back to Tokyo from Aomori – and the only way to do that was by the Tokyo Shinkansen.

It turned out to be one of the most enjoyable train rides I’ve ever been on (and that includes riding Amtrak coast to coast in the US and Eurostar across Europe).

Japanese bullet train first class seats

 

 

 

 

 

Of course, as it’s Japan, you expect the Shinkansen to run on time and be spotlessly clean. But we were in ‘Gran Class’, and Oh. My. God. The first thing we noticed was the size of the seats (which reclined)…

Shinkansen slippers

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and that there were slippers in little bags to put on and pillows and eye masks if we wanted them. Plus hot towels, and foot rests and personal lamps.

Tokyo Shinkansen #selfie

 

 

 

 

 

 

The whole set-up was like flying in the front of the bus on a plane, only the scenery is constantly changing. This is my Very Smug About Being On The Tokyo Shinkansen #selfie. #notevensorry

Tokyo Shinkansen bento box

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Drinks (alcoholic and soft) were complimentary, and there was a choice of light meals, either Western-style or Japanese. Both Harriet and I opted for Japanese and were given our own very cute bento boxes, and it was delicious…

Tokyo Shinkansen Gran Class attendant

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…the Gran Class carriage attendant was ADORABLE and bowed every time she entered the carriage or left it. She was constantly smiling at us. And bowing. Honestly, loved her.

Japanese Shinkansen seat controls

 

 

 

 

These were the seat controls. Hours of fun.

Japanese Shinkansen second class

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I decided to go and have a look at the regular (second?) class train carriage and discovered that while not quite as special as Gran Class it was still very nice and spacious and the seats looked super comfy in there, too. Basically, it puts our trains to shame.

Looking out the window on the Japanese bullet train

 

 

 

 

 

 

The thing I really liked was that even though the Japanese bullet train does of course go super fast (up to 200mph) it doesn’t actually feel as though you’re going that fast; it’s incredibly smooth. It doesn’t tilt so you don’t feel sick, and you do get a good view of the scenery (although it was raining and misty a lot of the time, thanks to the rain caused by the incoming Typhoon.)

Riding the bullet train

 

 

 

 

 

 

We arrived in Tokyo after the four-hour train journey feeling completely refreshed and ready to explore some more, and wishing we could have stayed on a little bit longer. How often can you say that about a journey? Now I really want to take No 1 Son on the Shinkansen because I know he’d love it. I’m thinking next year… ;)

I’m just going to share with you what it said on the back of our menu, because it’s so sweet:

“Though merely a brief interlude on route to your destination, we are honored to make your travels a highpoint in your journey.”

I mean, it’s like a haiku, right? Love Japan.

My top 5 things to do in Tokyo

We fell totally in love with Tokyo and it was a real wrench to leave it behind. Everything just works and it’s totally fabulous: the architecture, the style, the shops, the food, the atmosphere. It’s like they’ve taken the best elements of all the coolest cities in the world and put them in once place, but it’s all gorgeous and clean (those weird and wonderful loo controls and heated seats are just the start), without being remotely clinical.

So, here are my top 5 things to do in Tokyo. You’ll notice I haven’t included any bars – this is because I was travelling with Harriet, who is too young to drink alcohol in Japan. But honestly, there is so much to do and see it really didn’t matter.

Meiji shrine entrance

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1. Visit the Meiji Shrine. Built in 1920, this is a Shinto shrine dedicated to Emperor Meiji and Empress Shoken, and it’s the most beautiful, peaceful place. It’s located in a fabulous forest which gives it an ethereal feel and it’s perfect for strolling around in the morning sunshine, before it gets too hot.

Wedding party Meiji Shrine

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you time it just right, say at about 11am, you’ll also be treated to the sight of wedding parties in traditional dress, like this couple with their priest and guests.

Meiji Shrine

 

 

 

Write a little prayer on one of the scrolls for whatever you like and walk around enjoying the lake and trees. Meiji shrine lake

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And then if you’re in the need for some retail therapy afterwards the Meiji Shrine is close to Harajuku, with its cool boutiques, home to the Harajuku-girls.

Shibuya Crossing

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2. Go to Shibuya Crossing. OK, Shibuya is one of the most touristy places in Tokyo – a bit like Piccadilly Circus – but it’s also utterly fascinating and a great spot for people-watching. You’ll probably remember it from Lost in Translation. And when the sky darkens, it really is like something out of Blade Runner. All those neon signs – insane.

Hachiko statue Shibuya

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shibuya is also where you’l find the statue dedicated to Hachiko, most devoted dog in the world, immortalised in the movie Hachi: A Dog’s Tale. Bless him.

shoes Tokyo

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Close by you’ll find the fabulous Shibuya 109 shopping mall, where they sell crazy shoes like this…

crazy Japanese shoes

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

and this (actually, I could quite easily have bought these)…

 

conveyor belt sushi

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and conveyor belt restaurants, where you pay for what you eat.

conveyor belt sushi

 

 

Including of course yummy sushi and sashimi. So cheap, and delicious. And good for you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

3. Ride the Tokyo subway. At first it can appear incredibly confusing, particularly as you’re trying to get your head round the place names, and buying tickets can be a bit of a challenge. But it’s actually very simple; we mastered it after our first few trips, and if you get lost everyone will try to help you. Plus, it’s a great place to people-watch (we particularly enjoyed seeing Harajuku-girls putting on their false eyelashes without even glancing in a mirror); and the really fabulous thing about the Tokyo subway is all the underground shops and restaurants.

baby carriage Japan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Go to Asakusa. Again, it’s touristy, but my goodness you’ll see some amazing stuff here. (I couldn’t resist taking a photo of this pram, have you ever seen anything more OTT in your life?)…

Asakusa and Senso-ji temple

 

 

 

 

 

…including the Senso-ji temple.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Asakusa ShrineAnd at the end you reach the Asakusa Shrine, where everyone is rushing to wash in the holy water and light incense and pray. It’s total chaos.

Tokyo shopping mall

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

5. Shop ’till you drop. I’ve shopped all over the world but my goodness the Japanese know how to do it in style. Everything is just SO divine and beautifully packaged. Our favourite places included Kitte (which is a great place to pick up the fluffiest pork buns in the world) and the Marunouchi mall; also Ginza, with its upmarket stores, although all we could really do there was window-shop.

gyoza

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And then of course after all that shopping you have to eat. In our case as many gyoza as we could stuff in our faces at one sitting.

And there you have them, my top 5 things to do in Tokyo. And a few more besides. Wish we were there.

Autumn in Japan

autumn in Japan

 

 

 

OK, a bit of a confession: I’m actually a secret leaf-peeper. It started when No 1 Son and I went to Washington for my birthday one November, and since then, every excuse I get to look at beautiful autumn leaves and take photos of them, I take.

autumn leaves in Korsakov Japan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And of course autumn in Japan is known for it’s fabulous fall colours.

Oriase Japan

 

 

 

 

 

There’s even a word for autumn leaves in Japanese, ‘koyo’ (isn’t it gorgeous?).

autumn leaves Lake TowadaHakkoda Mountains

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So we were there at exactly the right time last week, as the leaves were starting to turn ruby and copper.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

For real leaf-peeping thrills, you can’t beat a ride in the cable car (the Hakkoda ropeway) over the tops of the trees in the Hakkoda Mountains near Aomori; they’re just so BIG.

 

 

autumn in Hakkoda Mountains Japan

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You see lots of maples and ginkgo and it’s absolutely stunning, even on a misty autumn day.

 

 

 

 

And the trees at Lake Towada were breathtaking, too (the blue skies really accentuated the autumn colours).

Lake TowadaI’d love to return in the spring, when the cherry blossom is out.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*This is my entry for The Gallery – the theme this week is ‘autumn’.

Big in Japan

Sunrise in TokyoActually this post could probably be called big ON Japan as well as big in Japan, because the fact is that our trip to Tokyo and cruise on Princess Cruises’ Diamond Princess around the Japanese islands was one of the most memorable holidays of my life.

We got back last Tuesday and I still wish I was there; I’d wanted to go to Japan for years and it exceeded all my expectations. And I was very lucky to be able to take my niece, Harriet, with me – she had never been outside Europe before so her mind was properly blown by everything we saw and experienced and she even managed to learn some Japanese phrases.

I’ve been to Asia a few times now, most recently to Vietnam and Cambodia, as well as Hong Kong and Singapore, but Japan is really the most intriguing destination I’ve visited to so far; I just want to go back as soon as possible, and next time take No 1 Son as I know he’d love it too.

I’m going to blog about all the things we saw and places we visited in chronological order (and we ended up spending four days in Tokyo thanks to Typhoon Phanfone – no real hardship though, as it’s officially now one of my Favourite Cities in the World, and we also got to travel on the bullet train, which is a whole post in itself.) But to give you a little taster…

Lucky cat

 

 

 

…while we were in Japan (10 days) we encountered everything from the slightly weird to the absolutely wonderful and crazily cute. Like this little lucky cat and kitten outside a shop – with a saucer of salt…

Little girl in kimono

 

 

…the very traditional – we spotted this adorable little girl in Asakusa…

Disney's Frozen dress

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…the unexpected – like this shop assistant wearing a skater dress made from Disney’s Frozen material…

Aomori

 

 

 

…we saw lots of incredible natural beauty, waterfalls and streams and the wonderful Fall (autumn) colours…

Buddha asakusa

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…temples and Buddhas – Japan is a very spiritual country despite all the commercialism…

Shibuya crossing

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and Blade Runner-esque scenes, like Shibuya Crossing.

 

Asakusa

 

And yes we were big in Japan as two men said within earshot at Shibuya Crossing (I think they were trying to flatter rather than insult us) – partly because Harriet is nearly 6ft tall and partly because the Japanese eat so healthily (all that fish, rice and noodles) that they are very petite.

Japanese pork bun

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In fact, I lost weight while we were there – no mean feat when you’re stuffing your faces with nikuman – Japanese pork buns (soooo good) at every possible opportunity. You know that scene in Mulan? It was *exactly* like that #notevensorry.

To give you an idea of the *madness* that is Tokyo (more on this later in the week), here’s my time lapse video of Shibuya Crossing. Proper Bladerunner stuff, right?

Hudl 2 review

When we were asked if we’d like to review a Hudl2 I was a bit skeptical; it seemed unlikely that a budget tablet that costs only £129 could offer the same sort of quality/functionality as its more expensive rivals. But I was very pleasantly surprised. So, here’s our Hudl 2 review.

Hudl 2

 

First impressions: the Hudl2 looks great, really stylish and although it’s slim and sleek it feels substantial, durable and strong. The size is just right, too – not too big for a handbag or school bag, not so small you’d lose it easily. It takes about three hours to charge up to full power and then you’re good to go.

Hudl 2 homescreen

 

Usability: the Hudl2 is incredibly easy to set up and get started, and there’s a cool video tour to help you discover where everything is. The screen is a decent size at 8.3in, bright and colourful and simple to navigate. The camera is also simple to use.

Browsing: the Hudl2 is already set up so you can use google (and google +) and it responds instantly.

Breaking Bad on Blinkbox

 

Blinkbox: this is very cool – there’s a fantastic choice of movies, TV programmes and books, and I can finally get round to watching Breaking Bad (I know, I can’t believe I haven’t seen it yet either). And the Hudl2 comes with £25 free blinkbox credit (#win).

Hudl 2 buttons

 

Added attractions: as the Hudl 2 comes from Tesco it’s easy to set up to link up to your Clubcard account and do your shopping, plus it comes with some pretty cool offers including £10 off at F&F and Tesco Direct when you spend £50. It also has Adobe Reader which is fab if like me you have to look at a lot of documents/pdfs.

My only niggle: The USB cable is a little short, which means that if you want to simply plug in to charge (rather than using your computer) it’s a little bit of a stretch from desk to socket.

Blinkbox entertainment

 

Verdict: the Hudl2 would make a brilliant Christmas present for kids aged 8-14 who probably aren’t quite ready for a more expensive android tablet – it’s got everything they could possibly need (you can buy accessories like headphones) and is also ideal for when they need to look up facts quickly for their homework or if you want to entertain them on a long journey; you can set up parental controls for up to seven users, too, so you can tailor it according to age and suitability, plus you can set a time limit so they don’t spend too long staring at the screen when they’re supposed to be ASLEEP. And it comes in a choice of colours so you can get their favourite. It would also be perfect for anyone who wants a tablet but doesn’t want to spend a fortune to buy one, or for someone who has the habit of dropping phones and tablets and smashing the screen *cough*. I’m tempted to hang on to it, although everyone in the family is already asking if they can have it.

 

The guilty remnants

I’m a bit obsessed with new US series The Leftovers – in fact I’d go as far as to say it’s my favourite TV show since Lost. It focuses on a small town, after a rapture-like happening where 2% of the world’s population have disappeared. Anyway, there’s a sort of commune (or possibly a cult) in the show: they dress in white and smoke a lot and upset people. They’re called The Guilty Remnant.

Why am I telling you this? Well the theme of today’s Gallery is ‘family.’ Those of you who read my feature in The Guardian a while back will know that something I’ve always struggled with was knowing my younger sister and I had grown up with our much loved daddy, while the children from his first marriage didn’t really have any contact with him (not his or my mum’s choice).

My oldest sister

 

I’ve described my older siblings as the brother and sister I’ve never met. But over the years I have managed to glean some information about my older sister. I know that she had a son – a nephew I’ve never met, either – and that she was married at one point.

And I also know that she left her family when her son was very small and ran away to join a commune, or possibly a cult. Which is perhaps why The Leftovers has such resonance for me.

My big sister

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This crumpled newspaper cutting is a photo of my sister when she was a model. She looks so beautiful. We still have no idea where she is, or whether she’s alive or dead and it’s possible we’ll never know. When someone disappears, apparently off the face of the earth, the guilty remnants are the ones left behind.

 

The Killing Fields and the amazing Cambodian people

It may seem strange that the Cambodian Government encourages tourists to visit the Killing Fields; but it’s an essential element of any visit to the country, because the fact is that from 1975 to 1979 an estimated 3 million people – 30% of the population – were killed by the Khmer Rouge. Nearly everyone you meet in Cambodia was affected by what happened, in some way, whether that’s the legacy of growing up without a family member who was murdered by the brutal regime, or struggling to survive in a country that has been scarred by genocide.

Choeung Ek

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We visited the Killing Fields at Choeung Ek just as the sky was starting to darken and rain pour down; the suddenly bleak weather a fitting backdrop. We walked round silently as we were shown pits where victims had been buried alive; a tree where infants had been smashed to death; and inside the Buddhist stupa, the skulls, divided into age and sex, each with their own coloured sticker to indicate the way they’d died. You have to force yourself to look, and to read: you owe it to them all.

barbed wire Tuol Sleng

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

From here we moved on to Tuol Sleng Genocide Museum, where 20,000 were tortured and killed. Many of their photos are on display and it’s impossible to tear yourself away from the harrowing images, so many faces, wondering if they could have known what terrible fate lay in store for them; some of them foreign tourists who were in the wrong place at the wrong time; some of them children. Most distressing is the photo of a woman holding a baby, knowing she’s about to be tortured.

Among the Khmer Rouge’s victims were intellectuals, those who wore glasses, the middle classes; a whole section of society was wiped out in their efforts to control the population and break their spirit.

Souk Cambodian schoolgirl

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ensuring children get an education is now a major priority in Cambodia, and we visited a school and village sponsored by Viking Cruises where the kids used to have to walk two or three miles just to get clean water. Now, they have a water pump and fresh water, and they’re talking about going to university and returning to help their village: kids like Souk, who is 14, loves geography and is looking forward to what the future holds.

 

Water-borne disease is still an issue in many communities and we saw kids actually swimming in rainwater with cattle. There is a long way to go.

Phare Cambodian Circus

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

All the people we met were warm and welcoming, so gentle, with wonderful smiles and an extraordinary generosity of spirit. The Killing Fields happened nearly 40 years ago, but there is still a long way to go until this incredible country is healed. There are huge issues with ‘orphanage tourism’ and exploitation; but there are also extremely positive things, like the fantastic Phare Cambodian Circus – a group of young acrobats who with the help of NGOs have come together to create something absolutely awesome.

These are some of the amazing people of Cambodia we met while we were there. Humbled, actually.

Elderly Cambodian woman

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We met this elderly lady when we were walking round a village. When I asked if I could take her photograph she put down the very big knife she’d been carrying and insisted on removing her headscarf…

Elderly Cambodian man

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…this charming elderly man invited us into his home…

Little girl CambodiaCambodian schoolboy

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…..this little girl was just delightful…

 

 

…this little boy goes to the same school as Souk. So cheeky, fantastic character…

Mother and daughter Cambodia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…this mum and child were very relaxed on their hammock,next to their cattle…

Mother and baby Cambodia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and this mum and her baby had such great smiles…
Cambodian kids

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and this group of kids kept wanting me to take their photos and show them the results. Very funny. Just like a group of kids anywhere in the world, in fact.

Chased by monkeys and blessed by a monk

Phnom ProsThere are  A LOT of temples in Cambodia, some ruins, some beautifully kept and still used regularly. It was on our excursion to Kampong Cham, to the Twin Holy Mountains of Phnom Pros and Phnom Srei, that we encountered some spectacular temples and Buddhas.

But what caught our attention first of all were the monkeys running wild everywhere. They’re macaques, and as you can see they’re rather gorgeous…

macaque monkey Cambodia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…I loved the expression on this one’s face…

monkey sticking his tongue out

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and then he stuck his tongue out…

sitting monkey Phnom Pros

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and this one…

sleepy monkey Cambodia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and this sleepy one…

steps at Phnom Pros Cambodia

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

but they’re utterly fearless. If they cotton on to the fact that you’re watching them, they will leap on top of you or even chase you… which is why we found ourselves running down these rather steep steps…

monk with reclining Buddha Phnom SreiSo safely away from the monkeys we found ourselves surrounded by giant – and I do mean giant – Buddhas…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I think this photo puts the size in perspective…

Temple at Phnom Srei

 

 

 

 

 

I’m not remotely religious, and I find it difficult to see lots of gold and jewels when there are people living hand to mouth and begging within spitting distance. I like the idea of Buddhism but I can’t really get past that. But inside this beautiful temple, there was a shrine and the sobering sight of hundreds of skulls, victims of the Khmer Rouge and the Killing Fields. So maybe it’s about what helps you to get through whatever cards life deals you, and I do respect that.

Udon temple

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On our visit to Udon, a monastery near Kampong Trolach, we saw the most astonishing temples, all glittering in the sunshine against the azure blue sky…

Children on the steps of Udon temple

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…these kids were sitting on the steps, trying to take our shoes for a few dollars (giving money like this is really discouraged, and I couldn’t possibly inflict my smelly Birkis on them)…

ceiling Udon temple

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and then inside (this is the spectacular ceiling) we were invited to sit in the lotus position (well, cross-legged at least) on the floor and close our eyes while two monks chanted at us, apparently something about long life and happiness…

monks Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…at one point we were pelted with what I thought was water but turned out to be lotus flowers. And then when that was over we were invited (after we’d given over a few dollars, of course) to receive our amulets – red wool bracelets, blessed by the monks. Of course the monks aren’t allowed to touch women and both my monk and I found it funny as he tried to tie the knot without touching my wrist.

But… I still haven’t taken it off. I’m not sure if there’s anything in it but I’ll take all the help I can get.

monks Udon monastery

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Afterwards, we were free to explore the monastery. We saw this procession of monks, off to get the food offerings from the neighbouring villages – they have to eat before midday every day.

elderly monk Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

There was an old monk…

baby monk Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and a young monk. Apparently boys/young men can try being a monk for a week if they fancy it and then go back to their everyday lives when they’ve had enough. No, me either.

Monks sheltering from the sun Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…I love this shot of the monks sheltering from the sun – they’re almost camouflaged..

Nuns at Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…and we also saw nuns…

nun's house Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

…this is a nun’s house.

children playing Udon

 

 

 

 

 

…and kids playing hopscotch and climbing trees.

Buddha at Udon

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Our visit to Udon was a fascinating glimpse into a world that had been, until then, totally alien to me. Did it make me more centred, or calmer? Oh, for about five minutes.

amulet and a Strawberry Daiquiri

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Here’s my amulet. And a Strawberry Daiquiri, natch.)

 

 

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